Sharing a home with your things AND your partner's things can (and probably does) create:
FRUSTRATION
Most humans exhibit subtle or sometimes overt frustration with their partner, especially around the topic of house clutter. There is good reason for your frustration, I can assure you. Your brain is trying desperately to help calm your nervous system due to the chaos that surrounds you. Trying to create order is it's mission.
ARGUMENTS
Whether you are conversing loudly with each other or dancing around the elephant in the room (or possibly all the rooms) and getting absolutely no movement in how you would like to live in your home, understanding some of the "whys" clutter exists or gets created in the first place, can help each of you move towards creating remedies.
DISCONNECTION
Not feeling connected inside your relationship due to the conflict created by clutter can lead you both down mutual paths of confusion, disappointment, feeling alone, angry, and not reaching for one another intimately. I would like to support the importance of you both working together as a respectful and sexy team to bridge the distance that's developed with clutter.
You are not alone in this.
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Getting support from a relationship coach who specializes in the specific topic of clutter will help you both learn how to talk and problem-solve the clutter issues you are currently faced with.
I'll help you with understanding the causes of clutter, efficient communication tools along with loads of humor to help you create a new way of life with your partner.
It's imperative that you work as a team to create the sanctuary you both want.
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