How's that nagging working for you? I've got a better way to get order in your house

Nagging in a relationship due to clutter is a common issue that many couples face. It occurs when one partner repeatedly reminds the other to tidy up, organize, or get rid of items that they perceive as clutter. While the partner who nags may have good intentions, the constant reminders can create tension, frustration, and resentment in the relationship. Feeling more of those emotions can definitely hinder your connection and ultimately your intimate life. 

Clutter can mean different things to different people. For some, it may be piles of laundry or dishes, while for others, it may be stacks of papers or a disorganized closet. When clutter becomes overwhelming, it can affect a person's mood, productivity, and overall well-being. This is why some individuals feel the need to tidy up their surroundings and may become annoyed when their partner does not share the same view.

To avoid nagging in a relationship due to clutter, couples can work together to create new systems that establish clear expectations and find a compromise that works for both people. This may involve setting a regular schedule for tidying up or organizing, and decluttering certain areas of the house quarterly, monthly, weekly, and daily. It's incredibly important for you to spend some time talking and agreeing on a designated storage space for items that tend to accumulate: cardboard mountains from online shopping, recycling, mail, shoes at the front door, etc. You guys are a team and each person needs to have commitment to keeping the home a true sanctuary.

It's important to approach the issue of clutter with empathy and understanding. Rather than criticizing or blaming, couples should try to communicate their concerns in a respectful and constructive manner. Consider checking out my Masterclass on Communication Foundations which will provide a tidy and efficient method to have both of you be able to speak about hot topics in a loving and respectful manner.